Good Morning,
Have any of you ever moved far away from where you grew up? Did you bring a pet with you? How did you get past your anxieties?
I won’t be moving just yet necessarily but becoming a snow bird. This is going to be my special journey from here up north to way down south. Basically as far south in the US as you can get, just outside the Everglades. It’s really a place out of my wildest dreams with alligators (yes, I adore alligators—just not where my dog is involved), subtropical plants and weather, and thunderstorms. The most important reason I’m going though is because my boyfriend lives there. He’s a very special person who has stayed with me through thick and thin.
Despite my anxieties (mostly about my dog’s wellbeing), I’m very excited. I just wish that I could get my extremely disorganized mind to help me arrange my plans a little bit better. How do you organize yourself when you have anxiety and/or ADD? And do you have any advice on how to prepare a pet for long travel? Especially a dog with anxiety.
P.S. Pet Anxiety …
Do any of you with anxiety notice that your pets (whether cats or dogs) seem to show similar patterns of nervousness? My dog, Thor is very jumpy. He wasn’t like that as a puppy but appears to have grown into it after about a year of age. He is less social despite me introducing him to everyone, every dog, and bringing him to puppy classes. I mean, I guess it’s pretty obvious that my anxiety has rubbed off on him… but to what degree? And how can I help him now that I’m starting to get my anxiety under control?
I have always been hesitant about the typical styles of training for many reasons. Firstly because it looks to be punishment-driven but also because Thor is a Basenji and this breed is notoriously stubborn and independent. They are also known for not adhering to typical training methods. I’ve always had a lot more luck with reward-based training. It’s just that his anxiety definitely gets in the way.
Do any of you have a basenji? What sort of training methods and rewards do you use? How do you exercise them and their minds? Thor enjoys puzzle boxes and doing his tricks, but I’d also like to learn more about scent work as he’s very driven by smells. Does anyone do this?
Working and playing with Thor makes me happy and I think he’ll have a lot of fun in Florida. I am very excited especially to watch him greet my boyfriend when he gets home from work in the afternoon. That will be such a small thing, but something to look forward to each day that’s bursting with joy.